Absolution for Ares

My soulmate is a Valkyrie? Seriously? How am I supposed to even find one of those, let alone bond with her?When one practically lands at my feet, she's not what I expected. Tilje's too much like me, and she's here on a mission. Valhalla needs help. Goes without saying that I'm the Olympian for the job, even if I haven't ascended yet. Which is totally up to her. I mean, I'm all about the bonding ritual when she's this close.But why does she resist the attraction she obviously feels for me? And how can I go about changing that?